We All Need Somebody – Day 14

•December 14, 2012 • 3 Comments

Sorry for posting this early yesterday…

Mary Visits Elizabeth

39 A short time later Mary hurried to a town in the hill country of Judea. 40 She went into Zechariah’s home, where she greeted Elizabeth. 41 When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, her baby moved within her.

The Holy Spirit came upon Elizabeth.

Imagine how Mary must have been feeling…

She’s been visited by angel, told she’s going to have a baby – difficult enough when you know you’re a virgin – but on top of that, this baby is God’s.  How do you begin to get your head around all that?!

We will all have had news at one time or another that has shocked or surprised us, when we’ve wondered how we would cope, what we would do, what would happen to us – none of it compares to this, but we will know that when you are grappling with shock, it helps to have someone to share it with.  This takes us back to day 6, and our need of community.  I wanted to choose the same song, I’ll have to think again…

So Mary sets off to visit Elizabeth. Did she know of Elizabeth’s miraculous pregnancy?  If she did, she would have known that Elizabeth was probably THE one person who would understand what was happening to her.  The child within Elizabeth immediately recognises what God is doing – and great is the rejoicing.

These two women, who God has chosen to do something spectacular, beginning in them, live together and support each other in their awesome task.

Henri Nouwen points us again to the community of people who affirm, deepen and strengthen the work God is doing in and through us.

We all need those people.  People who remind us, who affirm us, who stretch us, who support us.  We need to be brave enough to seek them out, to trust them, to share with them, and allow them to speak into our lives.  Or will we hold them at arm’s length and not let them in?

In turn, we also need to be available to be that person to others who need it.

Who can support you today?  Will you let them?

Who can you support?

I thank you Lord,

that there are those that stand in my corner,

willing to support me,

to hold me up,

to comfort me,

and even to challenge me.

I thank you for their companionship,

their strength

and their faithfulness.

May I be ready and able

to accept what they offer.

I pray that in my turn,

I can be a faithful friend

and support

to those who need it from me.

Give me strength,

give me grace,

give me sense,

I pray.

This year for Advent, some friends and I are using Advent and Christmas Wisdom from Henri J. M. Nouwen.   You’re welcome to join us on this journey.  Feel free to comment here, or on Twitter using #adventbookclub

Just Listen – Day 13

•December 13, 2012 • 3 Comments

Ah, listening – that old chestnut!  Did you actually hear what I said??  It is perfectly possible to be present, and to hear nothing of what is said, or to hear the noise, but not register the words, or even to hear the words, but do nothing about it.  Sometimes you even get an apparent response to what is said, but when later questioned on why nothing has happened any recollection is denied.

You can see I have vast experience of this!!  And yet.. am I any different?

  • Do I even hear God speak?  Is there so much noise in my life that I can’t hear?  Am I just not paying attention?
  • Do I hear God say something, but do nothing about it?  Am I too wrapped up in me and my problems?  Do I not see the point?  Am I distracted by something else?
  • Do I respond to God’s voice, but then forget?  Or get too busy?
  • Do I even give God the chance to speak?  Do I never stop still long enough? Do I let him get a word in my chatter?

Lord,

I stop,

and listen.

There is so much to be heard,

when I stop making a noise.

And so,

today,

I purposely take time

to hear your voice,

not what I think you’re saying,

but to really listen

to what you have to say to me.

And as I listen,

may I allow your words

to sink into me,

allow them to touch me,

to shape me,

to challenge me.

Then I respond

The Good Shepherd

23 You, Lord, are my shepherd.
I will never be in need.
    You let me rest in fields
of green grass.
You lead me to streams
of peaceful water,
    and you refresh my life.

You are true to your name,
and you lead me
along the right paths.
I may walk through valleys
as dark as death,
but I won’t be afraid.
You are with me,
and your shepherd’s rod
makes me feel safe.

Your kindness and love
will always be with me
each day of my life,
and I will live forever
in your house, Lord.

This year for Advent, some friends and I are using Advent and Christmas Wisdom from Henri J. M. Nouwen.   You’re welcome to join us on this journey.  Feel free to comment here, or on Twitter using #adventbookclub

Just Love – Day 12

•December 12, 2012 • 3 Comments

There is a story about a young girl, left at night to say her prayers.  Her parents go to check on her as she’s been a while.  Her reply to them?

I was just telling God that I loved him, and he was just telling me that he loved me

Nothing else mattered to her at that time, she was lost in wonder love and praise – of and for God.

By Wingchi Poon (Own work) [CC-BY-SA-3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0)%5D, via Wikimedia Commons

Today, Henri Nouwen asks us to focus on nothing other than love of God.

The preacher in me is desperate to add – that then we can love others.  But there is not even that.  Today we are just to get lost in love and praise of God.  To give our heart mind and soul over to him.

To sit in God’s love, to let it feed our soul, to tell him of our love for him.

Matthew 22:34-38

The Most Important Commandment

34 After Jesus had made the Sadducees look foolish, the Pharisees heard about it and got together. 35 One of them was an expert in the Jewish Law. So he tried to test Jesus by asking, 36 “Teacher, what is the most important commandment in the Law?”

37 Jesus answered:

Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind. 38 This is the first and most important commandment.

The suggested Advent Action today speaks of the “old tapes” running through our heads.

Oh those old tapes, “You’re not good enough”, “You’re not worth it”, “You never do anything right”, “I can’t trust you”…

How I long for the day, when I can bask in God’s love  long enough and deep enough that I allow him to erase those tapes from my life.  It’s me stopping the love, not him.

Lord,

I thank you for the depth of your love for me;

that in you am I worth it,

I am loved,

I’m not rejected.

Thank you for coming to earth to show it

– not just to me, but to every single person.

Today Lord,

may I sit in your love,

allow it to fill my heart, soul and mind,

and to just love you

This year for Advent, some friends and I are using Advent and Christmas Wisdom from Henri J. M. Nouwen.   You’re welcome to join us on this journey.  Feel free to comment here, or on Twitter using #adventbookclub